Chris Brown...Problem Child???

So now everyone and their momma wants to dog Chris Brown. I'm not gonna do it, the boy (yes, I said boy) is young and (now don't tell anyone I said this) HUMAN!!! He made an OBVIOUS MISTAKE. Why is everyone acting like he killed her? Yeah, unfortunately, I saw the picture. Now granted, if it was my sister that he “beat” like that, I’d be ready to fight; but when it’s all said and done, I would have to move on for my sister’s sake.

Everybody is so gun-ho about stating their opinions and who their supporting that they forget sometimes the best support is the silent kind. The last thing that Chris or Rihanna need is people constantly talking about what happened? And what went wrong? (Like anyone other then them and God, really knows).

Leave them alone!!!

BTW, am I the only one that’s seriously disappointed in MTV for their “news special” on the subject? I mean really, the whole show was contrived of “expert” opinions and “sources”. ARE YOU SERIOUS MTV? I’ve lost so much respect for that network, it’s ridiculous. Don’t get me wrong I do feel that it’s important for women (and men) to understand their worth and to realize that it is not o.k. for ANYONE (male or female) to abuse you, pointblank!! But forgive me if I don’t think that, that was the real reason behind them airing that “special”. The issue there was ratings plain and simple!! If the show was about abuse in relationships, it would have had more information on everyday couples facing the issue and their “experts” would have spoke more on the issue itself and less on Chrihanna.

This whole situation has left a bad taste in my mouth, not for Chris Brown but for the media, and their way of handling this. Look at TMZ, they sold out Rihanna’s privacy for $62K. Really!? That cheap!?
And I hope that the person at the LAPD who is responsible for the leak, never finds out just how much of a B*&^h Karma can be. Yeah, you got $62k but what are you gonna lose for that money, other than respect?

Oh! And stop asking celebrities their opinion on this private matter. That’s like someone asking your neighbor, their opinion, on how you cooked your pot roast. Who gives a rat’s behind? They don’t have to eat it, so it really doesn’t matter how they feel. Same can be said for the celebrities, they aren’t in the relationship so gives a rat’s behind on how they feel about it. Keep It Moving!!

And to the bloggers who posted the photo, regardless of the statement you made before or after you posted it, SHAME ON YOU. It doesn’t matter what statement you made when you posted it, the fact that you posted it, makes you no different from TMZ.

To Rihanna and Chris, may God guide you in this situation to make the best decision for YOU!! Buck the world and DO YOU!!!

xoxo Noemi

Chrianna, Relationships and etc.,

I've had my full of the whole Chrianna Saga. I mean really there are only three people that really know, what happened on the famous Sunday night drive. Chris, Rihanna and God; and God is the only one who knows the truth. Nonetheless, you have people choosing teams and whatnot; when did relationships become a sport. Who's on my team? Should we pick a side for all couples? And if that's the case how many teams are in this "league"? LOL, could you imagine the play-offs or the championship game?

I’ll use my friend’s love life (or lack there of) as an example; last week a dude that she hasen't spoken to in a minute (for reasons I don't care to go into right now) called her out the blue. Well, to be honest it wasn't entirely out of the blue; he'd recently taken to sending her little odd text messages on the sly. And since we're here what the hell is up with dudes falling off the face of the earth, only to return once you've said "I'm through with him" .... My bad! I went off for a second.

Anywhoo, he calls her and she being the nice woman she am, she talk’s to him. The conversations goes through the normal, "why haven't we spoken in so long" nonsense, to the "what I want to do in the future" B.S. only to end with him asking her "when am [she] going to take [him] out" and the final question of the conversation was "when [she]was going to move out of my mom's house?"

What in the rats-ass!?.. Why would she take some random dude out on a date? And I say random because they don't talk enough for him to deserve to be taken out. I’m mean really, does she have “ASS” written on her forehead.

Where the hell has chivalry gone and how do we get it back? And on top of that, did he miss the whole “we’re in a recession" speech that everyone, and their mama, is giving. I mean really, move out and what take him out on dates? I could see her now, paying rent on the first only to starve the rest of the month, because she’s taking his but out on a date (which if he had his way would probably end with her in an compromising position). I mean in the end, it would probably do wonders for any woman’s figure but I don't think it would do anything for her self-esteem or my image. I can hear the girls, clowin’ her now.

Needless to say the conversation ended shortly thereafter.

Don’t get me wrong, we all have aspirations’ of being on own but, personally speaking, I don’t think that now is the time to do it.

Alright I’ll admit, the moving out part of their conversation, through me a little; but the take him out on a date part just made me damn mad!! It seems as though, men (yeah I’m generalizing) have lost their “mutha-freaka” mind. Or is it that women have become soo… blasé about things that men have just forgotten how to be.. MEN! The way some of them behave is just outrageous. Don’t get met wrong, there are some great men out there and I’m not going to say “you know who you are” because honestly great men really don’t know how great they are because their modest about it. I’m still not choosing sides in the Chrihanna situation but I’m not gonna turn a blind eye to the fact that men today really don’t know how to treat ladies (I use the word loosely because a lot of women don’t know how to be ladies). Unfortunately, for a lot of men, I do; and in the words of Jhene “I won’t play that game”

So, NO, she won’t be taking him out anytime soon, and she’ll leave her momma’s crib when she’s good and ready.

How you like dem’ apples!?